PORTLAND BASED FAMILY LAWYERS
Get calm, practical advice from our experienced family lawyers who listen first, clearly explain your options, and help you map out your best next steps.
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MATTERS RESOLVED OUT OF COURT
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YEARS OF FAMILY LAW EXPERIENCE
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YEARS OF EXPEREINCE
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You’re in the right place if you need help with:
We focus on practical outcomes and cost-effective strategies – not dragging things out.
When you’re facing the breakdown of a relationship, it can feel like everything is up in the air at once. You’re stressed, tired, dealing with a mix of emotions and now have to deal with a legal process you’ve likely never gone through before.
In a smaller community, it’s even harder. You’re still going to see your ex around town and, living in Portland, we know people gossip. If you’re like the people we have helped in our almost 40-years working in family law, you:
If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone – and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself. Start with a free 15-minute appointment. It’s a calm, no-pressure chat to help you clarify your options and map out your best next steps.
Separation is stressful enough. Working with your lawyer shouldn’t make it harder. With Stratus Legal, you’ll get calm, practical support that keeps things clear, protects your privacy, and helps you move forward without wasted time or money.
You’ll Know What To Do Next
We give you clear next steps early, so you’re not guessing what to do or stuck in limbo.
You’ll Stay Informed & In Control
We communicate clearly and consistently, so you always know what’s happening and what’s next.
You’ll Avoid Wasting Money
We’re honest about what’s worth pursuing, so you don’t pay for conflict that won’t help you.
You’ll Feel Supported Throughout
You’ll get calm, respectful guidance at every step, so the legal process feels more manageable.
You’ll Know Where You Stand
We explain scope and likely costs upfront, so you can make decisions without nasty surprises.
You’ll Move Forward Sooner
We focus on resolution over escalation to reduce delays & stress so you can move forward.
When you’re going through separation, you don’t just need a lawyer – you need a clear plan, straight answers, and a team that helps you move forward without making things harder (or more expensive) than they need to be.
That’s what Stratus Legal is here for. We keep communication clear and consistent, so you’re never left wondering what’s happening or what comes next. We’ll give you honest, practical advice about what’s worth pursuing and what’s likely to cost more than it’s worth, so you can make smart decisions from the start. And because privacy matters, especially in smaller communities, we keep things calm, professional, and discreet at every step.
We’re upfront about our fees, so you’ll get clear guidance on scope and likely costs early, so there are no surprises later. Wherever possible, we aim to resolve matters out of court, helping you save time, stress, and money. With 40+ years of family law experience, our team brings a steady, down-to-earth approach that helps you feel supported and in control.
Not sure where to begin? Start with a free 15-minute appointment, and we’ll map out clear next steps – no pressure, just clarity.
OUR PROCESS
STEP 1
Pick a time that works for you. You’ll tell us what’s going on, and we’ll explain your options in plain English.
STEP 2
We’ll map out the best next steps, including timelines, costs, and how we’ll protect what matters most to you.
STEP 3
We handle the legal work, keep you updated, and guide you through each step until it’s resolved.
Get calm, practical advice from our experienced family lawyers who listen first, clearly explain your options, and help you map out your best next steps. All appointments can be either by a video call, on the phone or in person – you choose.
No Obligation • No Pressure • Just Clear Next Steps
PRICING
We Provide Clear, Upfront Fee Guidance From The Start
Legal costs are a real worry during separation, and you shouldn’t feel in the dark about what things might cost. From the start, we’ll explain the likely pathway for your matter and give you clear fee guidance so you can make smart decisions. At Stratus Legal, we always provide:
We’ll help you choose the most cost-effective path forward, and we’ll tell you clearly when something isn’t worth the time or money.
Choosing a family lawyer is a big decision. Here’s what our local clients say about working with Stratus Legal.
When you’re already under stress, the right legal support makes a big difference. Here’s what you can expect with us, compared with what many clients have told us they’ve experienced elsewhere.
OUR TEAM
MANAGING PARTNER
Kathryn Oswald is a family lawyer known for her practical, grounded approach and straight, human-centred advice. With deep capability across Family Law, Property and Estates, she helps clients cut through the noise, understand what matters most, and take the next best step with confidence. Kathryn’s work is shaped by regional practice and real-life experience – focusing on solutions, clear communication, and helping people move forward without unnecessary conflict or wasted legal spend.
SENIOR ASSOCIATE
Amanda Azzinnaro is a Senior Associate who helps clients navigate Family Law matters with clear advice, practical thinking, and a steady approach. With experience in financial separation, binding financial agreements, and divorce, she supports clients to understand their options, protect what matters, and move forward with confidence. Amanda is known for her transparent communication, genuine care, and focus on achieving sensible outcomes without unnecessary stress, delay, or cost.
LAWYER
Angel is a lawyer who supports clients through Family Law matters with a calm, steady approach and clear communication. With experience across Victoria, Queensland and New South Wales, she brings practical insight to matters that involve different states. Clients value Angel’s warm, supportive style and her focus on helping people feel informed, confident, and clear on the next steps during separation and other major life changes.
Family Law can be complex and confusing. Here are the most common questions we get asked as Family Lawyers. Don’t see your question below? You can ask us directly by booking your free appointment.
How is property divided after separation?
There’s no automatic 50/50 split. It depends on contributions, future needs, and what’s fair. We’ll help you work out a realistic range based on your situation.
Do we have to go to court for a property settlement?
Not usually. Most matters resolve through negotiation, mediation, and consent orders. We aim to keep things practical and resolve matters out of court where possible.
What if my ex is uncooperative?
That’s common. We’ll help you take the next best step, protect your position, and avoid spending money on arguments that don’t change the outcome.
Can I get advice early, even before final separation?
Yes — and it often helps. Early advice can protect assets, reduce mistakes, and give you a plan before things escalate.
We weren’t married. What are my rights?
You may still have rights under de facto laws. If you lived together as a couple (often for 2+ years, or with other factors), you may be able to pursue a property settlement.
I don’t have any money — should I still book an appointment?
Yes. The free appointment is a low-pressure way to get clarity. If we’re not the right fit, we’ll point you to the best next step.
Do we have to sell everything?
Not always. It depends on the asset pool and what outcome is realistic. We’ll help you plan the most practical way forward.
Everything is in my ex’s name — can I still get a settlement?
Possibly, yes. What matters is the overall relationship and contributions, not whose name is on the paperwork. Get advice early so you don’t make a mistake.
Can I claim my ex’s inheritance?
Sometimes, depending on circumstances. This is one where details matter, so it’s best discussed in the free 15-minute appointment.
I’m done, but my ex isn’t taking me seriously. What should I do?
We can help you create a clear plan and take steps that protect your position and reduce conflict. Early advice helps.
Can my ex stop me going to the kids’ school events?
It depends on your parenting arrangements and any safety concerns. We can help you work out what’s reasonable and what to do next.
I’m locked out of my bank accounts — what should I do?
Act quickly. We can help you work out immediate protective steps and what information you should gather.
What is the divorce process?
In most cases: file the application, arrange service if needed, then the court grants the divorce. We’ll guide you through the steps and make it as smooth as possible.
Are we actually de facto?
It depends on things like living together, finances, commitment, and the length of the relationship. We’ll help you work out where you stand.
Are the assets split 50/50?
Sometimes it starts around equal in longer relationships, but it can move up or down based on contributions and future needs. We’ll tell you what’s realistic and what’s not worth chasing.
How long does a property settlement take?
It varies, but many resolve in around 6–12 months. Getting advice early can prevent delays and help you move forward faster.
How much will it cost?
It depends on complexity and how cooperative the other side is. We’ll give clear fee guidance early and help you choose the most cost-effective path forward.
Divorce and property settlements — are they the same thing?
No. Divorce is the legal end of the marriage. Property settlement is sorting out finances and assets. You can deal with one without finishing the other.
What makes Stratus different for regional clients?
We understand regional life — privacy matters, community ties are real, and you may still see your ex around town. We keep things discreet, practical, and focused on moving you forward.
I don’t know how I’m going to pay for this — what should I do?
You’re not alone. We’ll talk through practical options and what’s realistic for your situation, including whether funding pathways may be available.
How are we going to split these assets?
Usually the process involves identifying the asset pool, looking at contributions and future needs, then negotiating a fair outcome (often through consent orders).
Can my ex claim my inheritance?
It depends — inheritances can be treated differently based on timing and how they were used. We’ll give realistic guidance based on your facts.
My ex won’t leave the house. What should I do?
This depends on safety, children, property ownership, and what’s happening day-to-day. We’ll help you work out the safest, most practical next step.
My ex won’t let me see my kids.
Parenting issues are serious and time-sensitive. We can talk through the next step and whether mediation or urgent action is appropriate.
My ex is spreading gossip/rumours about me.
In small communities this is stressful. We can help you focus on steps that protect your position and avoid making things worse.
Can my ex really sell everything?
It depends on what assets they’re talking about and how they’re held. Get advice early so you can protect your position.
What documents will you need?
It depends on your matter. Commonly this includes ID, relationship details, and financial documents. For divorce, you’ll usually need your marriage certificate.
Will being de facto change what I’m entitled to?
Not necessarily. De facto couples can have similar rights to married couples, but time limits and details matter — so it’s worth getting advice early.
How is property divided after separation?
There’s no automatic 50/50 split. It depends on contributions, future needs, and what’s fair. We’ll help you work out a realistic range based on your situation.
Are the assets split 50/50?
Sometimes it starts around equal in longer relationships, but it can move up or down based on contributions and future needs. We’ll tell you what’s realistic and what’s not worth chasing.
Do we have to go to court for a property settlement?
Not usually. Most matters resolve through negotiation, mediation, and consent orders. We aim to keep things practical and resolve matters out of court where possible.
How long does a property settlement take?
It varies, but many resolve in around 6–12 months. Getting advice early can prevent delays and help you move forward faster.
What if my ex is uncooperative?
That’s common. We’ll help you take the next best step, protect your position, and avoid spending money on arguments that don’t change the outcome.
How much will it cost?
It depends on complexity and how cooperative the other side is. We’ll give clear fee guidance early and help you choose the most cost-effective path forward.
Can I get advice early, even before final separation?
Yes — and it often helps. Early advice can protect assets, reduce mistakes, and give you a plan before things escalate.
Divorce and property settlements — are they the same thing?
No. Divorce is the legal end of the marriage. Property settlement is sorting out finances and assets. You can deal with one without finishing the other.
We weren’t married. What are my rights?
You may still have rights under de facto laws. If you lived together as a couple (often for 2+ years, or with other factors), you may be able to pursue a property settlement.
What makes Stratus different for regional clients?
We understand regional life — privacy matters, community ties are real, and you may still see your ex around town. We keep things discreet, practical, and focused on moving you forward.
I don’t have any money — should I still book a 15-minute appointment?
Yes. The free appointment is a low-pressure way to get clarity. If we’re not the right fit, we’ll point you to the best next step.
I don’t know how I’m going to pay for this — what should I do?
You’re not alone. We’ll talk through practical options and what’s realistic for your situation, including whether funding pathways may be available.
Do we have to sell everything?
Not always. It depends on the asset pool and what outcome is realistic. We’ll help you plan the most practical way forward.
How are we going to split these assets?
Usually the process involves identifying the asset pool, looking at contributions and future needs, then negotiating a fair outcome (often through consent orders).
Everything is in my ex’s name — can I still get anything in a property settlement?
Possibly, yes. What matters is the overall relationship and contributions, not whose name is on the paperwork. Get advice early so you don’t make a mistake.
Can my ex claim my inheritance?
It depends — inheritances can be treated differently based on timing and how they were used. We’ll give realistic guidance based on your facts.
Can I claim my ex’s inheritance?
Sometimes, depending on circumstances. This is one where details matter, so it’s best discussed in the free 15-minute appointment.
My ex won’t leave the house. What should I do?
This depends on safety, children, property ownership, and what’s happening day-to-day. We’ll help you work out the safest, most practical next step.
I’m done with the relationship, but my ex isn’t taking me seriously. What should I do?
We can help you create a clear plan and take steps that protect your position and reduce conflict. Early advice helps.
My ex won’t let me see my kids.
Parenting issues are serious and time-sensitive. We can talk through the next step and whether mediation or urgent action is appropriate.
Can my ex stop me going to the kids’ school events?
It depends on your parenting arrangements and any safety concerns. We can help you work out what’s reasonable and what to do next.
My ex is spreading gossip/rumours about me.
In small communities this is stressful. We can help you focus on steps that protect your position and avoid making things worse.
I’m locked out of my bank accounts — what should I do?
Act quickly. We can help you work out immediate protective steps and what information you should gather.
Can my ex really sell everything?
It depends on what assets they’re talking about and how they’re held. Get advice early so you can protect your position.
What is the divorce process?
In most cases: file the application, arrange service if needed, then the court grants the divorce. We’ll guide you through the steps and make it as smooth as possible.
What documents will you need?
It depends on your matter. Commonly this includes ID, relationship details, and financial documents. For divorce, you’ll usually need your marriage certificate.
Are we actually de facto?
It depends on things like living together, finances, commitment, and the length of the relationship. We’ll help you work out where you stand.
Will being de facto change what I’m entitled to?
Not necessarily. De facto couples can have similar rights to married couples, but time limits and details matter — so it’s worth getting advice early.
Get calm, practical advice from our experienced family lawyers who listen first, clearly explain your options, and help you map out your best next steps. All appointments can be either by a video call, on the phone or in person – you choose.
No Obligation • No Pressure • Just Clear Next Steps
To contact us, simply fill out the form, and we will reply within 24 business hours. If you need a faster response, call us at 1300 185 734 to speak with our team. We look forward to assisting you.
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A free 15-minute appointment can save you weeks of uncertainty. If separation has left you unsure what to do next, start here. We’ll help you understand your position, your options, and the likely next step – without pressure, confusion, or wasted time.